| Have you ever been on a date with a woman you | | | | Wow, that's it!! All the women I've ever dated have |
| met online and you just didn't "feel it?" | | | | been my opposite in personality type. Doesn't really |
| I know I have. In fact, when I was first starting out with | | | | make sense but that's when things worked out the |
| online dating I was getting increasingly frustrated at my | | | | best. I'm more of a quiet, analytical kind of guy. Well, I'm |
| inability to meet one of the "good ones." I would go on | | | | an engineer so that makes sense. Most of the women |
| date after date with VERY attractive women only to | | | | I've dated who I really liked were more outgoing and |
| ultimately fail at making a true, lasting connection with | | | | spontaneous. I always like a woman with a sense of |
| most of them. | | | | adventure and creative flair. Well, then that is exactly |
| Well, I knew something had to change. Was it me? | | | | what I need to be looking for online! |
| Was I just not compatible with any women? No, that | | | | After I realized it was more about personality than |
| couldn't be the case! After all, I had been in relationships | | | | anything else, I learned how to screen women in the |
| with women before and things worked just fine. So | | | | correct way. Here I was focusing on trivial things like |
| why is it so HARD to meet the right woman from the | | | | common interests and hobbies, when those things |
| Internet? | | | | really didn't matter at all. |
| Well, that's when it hit me like a ton of bricks... | | | | Ever gone on a date with a woman who was JUST |
| Screening!! I'm not screening correctly. In other words, | | | | LIKE YOU. You thought she was your soul mate |
| I'm not really seeing a woman for who she is in her | | | | because she also loved sports, Volkswagens and rock |
| profile. If I'm not seeing what she's really about before | | | | climbing but it still didn't work out?? |
| meeting her, then chances are, we'll have a hard time | | | | Well, here's why. She wasn't your opposite in |
| making a connection in person. I need to screen | | | | personality type. Opposites compliment each other and |
| women based on their profiles before I email them. | | | | that's why they get along so well. |
| Then my results will improve! | | | | So, next time you go online looking for HOT babes, |
| So, I had to take a long look at myself and figure out | | | | you need to put things like hobbies and common |
| whom I really want. What are the qualities I most | | | | interests on the back burner. Unfortunately, most |
| admire in a woman? Was there anyone I dated in the | | | | Internet dating sites use these things to match people, |
| past where things really clicked? What was she like? | | | | which is totally wrong. Instead, really look at her profile |
| Well, based on my experiences, I was able to come | | | | and determine her personality. It's not as tough as you |
| up with a woman who is JUST my type. She has to | | | | think. Look at her writing style. Look at her pictures. If |
| be attractive with dark features. OK, that's the physical | | | | you look closely enough you will finally "see" her. |
| stuff but there needs to be something deeper. She | | | | Once you become good at screening for your type, |
| needs to have a certain personality type that's | | | | you'll become a true Internet dating master in no time! |
| different from mine. She must be my opposite. | | | | |